{"id":45291,"date":"2021-02-18T08:21:19","date_gmt":"2021-02-18T05:21:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kfm.co.ug\/?p=45291"},"modified":"2021-02-18T09:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-02-18T06:14:07","slug":"boyztomen-being-stingy-is-being-the-same-as-being-selfish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kfm.dembefm.ug\/staging_h\/boyztomen-being-stingy-is-being-the-same-as-being-selfish\/","title":{"rendered":"BoyzToMen: Being stingy is the same as being selfish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of the mistakes that men make is if you present your value as money, then that\u2019s the only value she will see in you. If you present your value in terms of ideas, growth, that\u2019s what you will be seen as,\u201d Igaga said on the BoyzToMen show on D\u2019Mighty Breakfast.<\/p>\n<p>He added that many men are impatient in relations so they end up jumping all the steps and using money to sustain a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>This revelation came after Brian Mulondo talked about Valnetine\u2019s Day, when very many men start to wonder about the importance of money in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese days love and money are interchanged. If you give money, you must love her, \u201cBrian commented.<br \/>\nIgaga argued that as much as money is important, love is spelt with time and not money. Men should bring more than money to the table to sustain the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>He added that men need money but must not break their necks to get so much of it to impress girls because another man with more can come up and take up the woman.<\/p>\n<p>He advised that men should not waste time with women they don\u2019t love because time wasted cannot be returned. He also added that being stingy is not a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeing stingy is being the same as being selfish. Relationships are about giving and receiving. If you give, you will receive. However, give smartly. If a woman knows that you are giver, she will take a lot,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Igaga also said that men should be open about their finances with their women because usually when women aren\u2019t told, they do the calculations on their own and find out how much a woman earns.<\/p>\n<p>Listen to the podcast here:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/3rVDvh0\">http:\/\/bit.ly\/3rVDvh0<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the mistakes that men make is if you present your value as money, then that\u2019s the only value she will see in you. If you present your value in terms of ideas, growth, that\u2019s what you will be seen as,\u201d Igaga said on the BoyzToMen show on D\u2019Mighty Breakfast. He added that many men are impatient in relations so they end up jumping all the steps and using money to sustain a relationship. This revelation came after Brian Mulondo talked about Valnetine\u2019s Day, when very many men start to wonder about the importance of money in a relationship. \u201cThese days love and money are interchanged. If you give money, you must love her, \u201cBrian commented. 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